Saturday, January 19, 2008

Choosing Fun Over Drudgery

I Refuse To Lead A Dying Church - Chapter 3

The simple yet powerful truth contained in this chapter is this: "When is the last time you had FUN in church?"

Paul Nixon writes in this chapter that it may seem a trivial thing to think about having fun in church and that it might be difficult to believe that a church might indeed choose drudgery. We called it other things like: discipline, tradition, duty, liturgy, order - what have you.

I would not say that we have chosen drudgery over fun, yet I do get the sense that we rather easily get our feathers ruffled and choose to talk and whisper and yes, gossip about what has not gone our way or about the things we disagree with. We have some learning and growing to do in that respect.

I am convinced that every word and action that comes from us both as a church and as an individual have to be ones that are filled with energy, positive comments and faithful service. It's about joy and positive energy! And it is about what will work best to reach the community, not what about will ensure my own fine sense of good taste. It should be fun to go to worship, regardless of the liturgical style.

Paul Nixon gives the following examples that bring fun to any worship service:
  • Gentle humor shared by the preacher
  • Music that the average person can hum on the way home
  • Color and festive decor in the room
  • A mix of predictability and surprise in the order of worship
  • A great music artist whose music is going to be a WOW for most in attendance that day
  • An interview with people who beiefly interact off -script, talking about their lives or mission experience or relevant experience
  • Taking worshio outdoors once or twice a year
  • The experience of "aha!" God talking to me
  • Pleasant interaction with people before, during and after worship
  • A special event outside of worship itself, a way to engage the community.

We have accomplished some of these things and found that they have added to our experience together. There are others I think are important that we could accomplish together.

*Color and festive decor: This year for Advent and Christmas we purchased some new banners for the front of the sanctuary. They were vibrant and added a new dimension to the worship space. We need more of them and more color and festive decor throughout the sanctuary and parlor. Banners and paraments are expensive to buy, but can be made simply and inexpensively by those who have an artistice flair. Is that something you or someone you know could do?

*Pleasant interaction before, during and after worship: A year ago after remodeling and updating the parlor, our interaction increased significantly. It have noticed it has taken a bit of a backstep recently. I have looked at the parlor space recently and think it needs some re-arranging, some new art and color and new ways to invite people.

One of the things we struggle with is our coffee and snacks and how we see that part of what we do. Paul Nixon asserts and I agree that we need to serve our coffee and snacks as people arrive and not as people are rushing to leave. I want to give people a reason to come early and spend time in that space and with other people. In the coming weeks we are going to be changing up the space and asking people to offer to being snacks early and invite people into conversation prior to worship.

I love having fun, laughing and sharing in the wonder of life. If we are willing to have fun, to reach out, to share in joy with others, our numbers will increase and we will grow. It is about evangelism and sharing good news. Our vision to be refreshed, renewed and revived is so compelling that we need to share it with others. We need to share it with anyone who will listen and then invite them to come along on the journey.

The possibilities are unlimited and are only curbed by our lack of courage and vision. Whatever it is we do as a church, we must find ways to have fun in the doing! Drudgery is deadly.

Friday, January 11, 2008

I Refuse To Lead A Dying Church

January 11, 2008
Choosing Community over Isolation - Chapter 2

Every day when I pull into the church parking lot and make my way in to the building, I wonder, sometimes outloud, how we will ever reach the community that is right around us? Within walking distance to our church are many, many children and families of all kinds that are without a church and have needs that we would be able to meet if we had the courage to go out and meet them.

The second chapter of the book talks about Choosing Community Over Isolation. We have a huge, wonderful, old, in need of some repairs and updated building. It has served its purpose extremely well over the last 50 plus years. But I sometimes think, as the chapter says, that our building is a fortress. We keep the doors locked 99 percent of the time, our signs in our building to direct people are non-existent, and often our ministry is for US and not those who are living close to us.

The question before us is: Are we willing to choose our community over the isolation of what we call "The Oasis on West Elm United Church of Christ.

We are taking our first ever Misson Trip this summer to Applachia. The commitment that 17 people made to go on this trip will spur us to think about mission right around our fortress. In mid February we will receive a notebook with study materials, a bible study, and a plan and commitment to reach out around us.

In March we will be hosting our first families from "Family Promise". These families will sleep in our church and use our facility for a week at a time. This will stretch us and challenge us to share our building and our resources to the limit. I am praying we will have the courage to open our building to others.

On Ash Wednesday I will be offering "Drive-By Ashes" from our parking spaces on Elm Street. People can drive by, receive ashes on their forehead and get a cup of coffee. I am going to take the opportunity to show people that our church is alive and well and that we have life to offer. If you would like to join me, let me know.

Choosing Community over Isolation is a key for our life together.

What are you willing to do to reach out to our community around us? Or should we just board up the doors and do something else?

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Happy 2008

Happy New Year! 2007 was a great year at the Oasis on West Elm and ended on a high note with Christmas caroling and the Christmas production of a "Cricket County Christmas Cruise." For me it was the highlght of the year.

2008 holds many new opportunities for us. We will be taking our first ever MISSION TRIP to Appalachia this summer and you are invited to join us. We will be publishing the dates and cost very soon, so be looking for that.

We will also be sponsoring a leadership weekend retreat as we plan out our ministry for the days to come. Look at the blog for more updates and continued writing about "I Refuse to Lead A Dying Church" book study group.

Pastor Jim Oates

Monday, November 5, 2007

Choosing Life Over Death

Choosing Life Over Death - Chapter 1 - I Refuse To Lead A Dying Church

This may be the most appropriate chapter in the book as we begin think about the Oasis on West Elm and our decision to live and grow and not wither and die.

We have to make a conscious choice of life over death every week and every day in the life of our church. There are many times that we choose life and choose to live in new and vibrant kinds of ways, and there are times when we revert back to the old ways of doing things and old ways of feeling and control.

The author says that turn-around efforts are more likely to work when:
  • The church has dwindled to the point of desperation.
  • A healthier management begins to happen, so that old decision making structures are suspended.
  • The leader takes the time to hit the streets and purposefully network in the community.
  • A lot of praying occurs.
  • Beyond the initial splash, the leader changes gears slightly and begins to invest her or his time mentoring other leaders in the congregation.

As I read and reflect on those items, we are engaged in all of them at the moment.

  • We have gotten mostly over the point of desperation, though some folks still feel we should close.
  • Our management has changed drastically and we operate in a permission-giving mode, checking everything against our mission statement. We no longer have to jump through the hoops to get something accomplished. (some of us still stuggle with this)
  • I spend lots of time at the coffee shop and with the children who live around the church who come to the building to play and get some food.
  • I know that I pray every day for what we are about and know others do as well.
  • I have invested lots of time in the people who have gone thru the study and they have began to invest themselves in ministry in remarkable ways. I am ready for another group to go through the study together. If you are interested, please let me know, we will begin soon.

If we are not focused on growing a new thing in an old place, it is very easy to simply become a caretake of a church in decline. More often than not, folks become to expect this of us. After many years of decline, it begins to warp us and change us. We become ministers of death rather than life. We are invited to choose life, to be servants of life. We are invited to refuse, ever again, to be servants of death.

So what does this all mean for us at the Oasis?

1. Less time in simply looking in at each other and simply caring for each other. We are intentionally reaching out and pastoral care will happen in different forms.

2. We are spending more time in building bridges in the community, with the Neighborhood Association, with Family Promise and with those who live around us.

3. We spend NO time in pointless meetings. (I REFUSE to do that ever again) Teams meet only as needed and we plan ahead and check all we do with our mission. Meeetings, if they happen, will have a distinct purpose and will be used to accomplish our mission.

4. We will spend time in developing leaders that will be taking the church into the future. People now in leadership are growing and looking for God's leading. Some people have already stepped forward and we will be introducing some new areas in the very near future.

We are called to choose life. But, this choice can lead to some other choices - first of all, about hte way we spend our time.

I pray that with me you will choose life over death for our church! That you will pray for it and seek ways to share in ministry with others.

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Mark Your Calendars

Mark your calendars! We have planned some great events in the coming weeks:

Sunday, November 18: Youth Sponsored Thanksgiving Dinner immediately following worship.

Sunday, December 2: Christmas Caroling with party at church afterwards.
Stewardship Sunday

Sunday, December 16: A Christmas Production: "A Cricket County Christmas Cruise"
Dinner will be at 5:30 pm
Production to follow! Actors and Actresses needed!

Monday, December 24: 5:00 pm - Christmas Eve Service

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

I Refuse To Lead A Dying Church Study

After six weeks of studying, reading and learning together, the group has learned some significant things and we want to share some of them with you.


We decided early on in reading the book that we do indeed Refuse To Lead A Dying Church! The Oasis on West Elm United Church of Christ has a bright, mission filled future ahead of it, IF, we chose to live out this unique calling.

So, what did we agree to?

  • We refuse to lead a dying church.
  • We agreed to draw a line in the sand and refuse.
  • We refuse to simply go thru the motions and play church.
  • We refuse to help our church gracefully into the grave.
  • We refuse to channel our best ministry energy into community or justice endeavors that are detached from our congregation's life and ministry.
  • We refuse, ever again, to lead a dying church.

There are six critical choices:

  • Choosing Life over Death
  • Choosing Community over Isolation
  • Choosing Fun over Drudgery
  • Choosing Bold over Mild
  • Choosing Frontier over Fortress
  • Choosing Now Rather than Later

Over the next six weeks, I will be sharing some of the significant learnings and how they impact the future of our church and the direction we choose to go in the future. Check back for updates and feel free to make comments and ask questions.

Together, may we REFUSE TO LEAD A DYING CHURCH!

Monday, October 29, 2007

Oasis Weekly Update

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Dinner at 5:30 pm provided by Johann Kramer
Bible Study at 6:00 pm.
Habakkuk 1:1-4, 2:1-4
2 Thessalonians 1:1-4, 11-12
Luke 19:1-10 - Focus Scripture

Sunday, November 4
Worship at 10:30 am
Scripture: Luke 19:1-10
Message: "How to Deal with Ego Emissions"

Monday, October 22, 2007

Oasis Weekly Update

Week of Monday, October 22, 2007

Wednesday 5:30 - Dinner
6:00 - Bible Study - we will be meeting in the Parlor this week

Joel 2:23-32
2 Timothy 4:6-8, 16-18
Luke 18:9-14

7:30 - Candidate Forum in the Fellowship Hall

Thursday 7:30 - Band Practice for New Worship Service

Sunday 10:30 - Worship